Friday, August 13, 2010

Mystifying event in life



It was a Sunday. This is the day for relaxation to the IT engineers, after scheduled and enjoyable activities of Saturday , Sunday is the day for relaxation. Luckily I was in first half of Sunday so I was sleeping even the time is 11 .30 am.

I got up by listening to my cell phone ring which was from a cuisine and he has given a normal query about my brother –in-law, how is he, heard that something happened to him get it confirm from home, yes it was true I did a try to my father, they were on the way to sister house, and came to know that some accident has happened to my brother-in-law and his condition is bit serious.

I dint get any update till evening , I was in a thought that so many of my friends have survived this kind of situations so hope fully I could hear good news within hours but later at 9 pm started getting call from distance relative who are there in UAE and from native too. Things are very critical , his pulse is very less doctors can’t even touch his head until unless he maintain minimum pulse level. So their his life is on toss and he has moved inside a machine called ventilator. All they have to say is only one word, Pray to God! The volume of call reaching to me got increased hour by hour. It is now 10.30 pm, and was heavy raining outside too , no normal buses or train to Kerala all for today is over . I got scaring myself because the person who is on toss is my own brother in-law, very simple and humble man. 6 year elder to me , still remember all the events starting from her married to the last two month back the entire family spend two days in my house here in Bangalore . I thought I should Waite for early morning so I can catch 6 am train and I will be reaching there by 5.30 pm But I couldn’t sleep at all, I came online stated searching for online friends who and all there in al ain (UAE) started gathering more and more info , getting very negative feedback too. Now it is 1 am walking outside the room and looking whether, rain is still there or not , I don’t wanted to wait any more wanted to reach there in native ASAP . Finally an idea came to my mind I will go to one of the major bus station called satellite bus station and there I may catch bus to Mysore again in the early morning , I can go by bus to native . But how I can reach satellite bus station it is 30km far from here, okai I have to call my nephew and cosine , luckily they are having one of their friend too here , I don’t wanted to go only one with guy because he has to return alone again going to be very risky , so I have put the idea of going all for people together in two bike so that while coming they can come together . And it worked out , they might have enjoyed the night drive.

The climate over Kerala was dreadfully worst because of the drizzling reason , any how I have reached my home by 1.30 pm , the expected time was 10 am (it is sometime like this in India ), I got the latest update from Al-ain that no more improvement may be getting more and more worse , the half died body , even we cannot touch . They all are waiting for the good things or some kind of miracle to happen any how now 32 hours is over from the accident . Now there was so many version of talk regarding the tragic incident .

The initial story says while he was returning from his shops (cold store) to home by bike or bicycle, one car came from back and hit him and on the spot itself the brought him to hospital with major injuries and without conscious. And the other version says one naughty arab guy made fun on him by coming to shope asking for cigarette without coming down from the car and while giving the cigarette near to the car they will hold the handbrake and raise the car with high pitch and suddenly release the break , and car got squid on him . Whatever I didn’t go beyond the stories more over things are happened. All are in hope and praying to the God at maximum level , my sister ,mother , and his father are not aware of the real story yet . All people tried to hide it from them day got over all morning and evening will look out for a good news to hear from UAE hospital , now it is third day , Yap we got news saying that little hope is there , slight changes are there in the pulse and all, not sure still the integrity of this news , but people like me are started getting some real news too, just after one hour itself like his face and all are having more lymph covered , and pulse are beyond control, extremely less , and now this is the fifth day of the accident , yap, real humans even started showing their real nature too , like saying how long it is , we can be waited , we can stay back in his house , even if he recover what will be the outcome , what about conscious , continuous comma stage . Helplessly I heard on these all words, started praying to god from heart, distributing prayers etc.
The scene in UAE is all mallus are actively looking to hospital for all arrangement and the real arab guy , who is said to be the culprit , is doing real donation in his house for saving my brother in laws life by God. Donating rice, meat, money etc , with full hope. Now it is evening, all are almost set, now for sister and his father all got a sign that, will have to continue the prayer and it is really something out of human control and that was the words from doctors too from the beginning. I was outside to my home almost all were cool at 8 pm I got that call saying that all over , I rushed in to my house I could see father and his friends are chatting in the verandah and I didn’t mind them since I was wearing lunghi I have to shift to trouser , mean while my wife detected something from my face I told her to keep quiet and while coming back to verandah thinking to call one of my father friend , I have seen all are left from there , father is just going to the rest room , I run behind fathers friends and I told the matter they told me that they too got the info that’s why they came out from my house and they are now planning how to convince my father , and after two minute we could hear big cry of father and somebody from gulf has already called him and passed the message .

The another two hour was a kind of act, so many people reached my house luckily nobody has informed sister house so they are almost coo. But still my mother was there and he called to us mobile after smelling something we have managed that. It was difficult to manage my father emotions and sentiments even I too tried to say that we all are here, will have to accept whatever god has given. We got the news that around 7.30 IST the pulse became lower and lower and over and others even said Finlay doctors might have turned off the so called ventilator. Any how we managed to cover the night and in the early morning we reached to sister place , nice people they were not allowing to pass any vehicle to there since the realy stake holders are not aware , we waited there till 8 pm since sister and her daughter was sleeping , the many people started coming and we decided go inside at the moment they saw us they understood and started crying loudly . Then again it was the second act I couldn’t see the face of my sister and her daughter , she was very cute and only 5 years not able to understand the stuffs properly . Since there so many relations and social cultural organization in UAE (thanks to all ) they managed to send the body within 30 hours . Now it is final act. The house and surrounding very much crowded , I haven’t seen this many people in died house after my grand fathers death . So many people told me to go to air port and receive him his final arrival , I could still remember 9 years ago I from the same airport send him to UAE after his marriage . I told I will be able to manage sister and in house once the body has reached. I was praying to god to get the mental strength to face everything , yesterday during the time we heard the news my mental strength was extra ordinary , so people were expecting the same from me , finally at 8.30 am the vehicle reached house , we decided to enter the body to inside house so that all ladies and close family members can have a glance, I was there to open the box , managed to keep myself ok, the it was showing time all the ladies were there in the queue, one by one passed thorough the room with cry , my wife has taken his daughter and show her the body , she had second look to the body but seems to be not recognized properly whatever we didn’t asked but somebody might be ! . Last in the queue it was the turn of my beloved sister , his mother and brother , God take away that memories from my mind , she was shivering like anything we have told her to have popper look, but she couldn’t . The body moved to the yard for public view and finally it has gone the place it was made with .

Now it is almost 2.5 month over, she might be recovering at least by appearance and expression towards public, her daughter has been forced to change her school due to classmates talking about her father death, the 10 year relation with a family is going to affect slowly , yap, there was some compensation or insurance (what ever from UAE) but cannot even compensate a man’s 5 year earnings . Even he himself was insured, for the sake beloved daughter so at least her studies and all safe. There are lacks and lacks people in the world just for the sake of living they are leaving their home and doing hard work in another part of the world, let spray to god not happened like this to any people ,and along with will pray for his all goodness in his permanent world , where he has reached now .




















2 comments:

  1. May he find the best in kabar and judgement day, Ameen...


    Jishad

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  2. وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُم بِشَيْءٍ مِّنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوعِ وَنَقْصٍ مِّنَ الْأَمْوَالِ وَالْأَنفُسِ وَالثَّمَرَاتِ

    ഭയം, പട്ടിണി, ജീവധനാദികളുടെ നഷ്ടം, വിളനാശം എന്നിവയിലൂടെ നാം നിങ്ങളെ പരീക്ഷിക്കുകതന്നെ ചെയ്യും. അപ്പോഴൊക്കെ ക്ഷമിക്കുന്നവരെ ശുഭവാര്‍ത്ത അറിയിക്കുക.

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